About Graham
I work online and face-to-face with individuals and couples.
HELP FOR COUPLES:
Many couples experience relationship difficulties of which sex can be a major component. It is the subject that holds the most shame and pain for many people. Finding the time and a safe space to gently explore it together can be difficult.
I can help provide that space without judgement or preference for either partner. I believe in relationships and how wonderful they can be as well as knowing how challenging they can be too.
My aim is to listen and allow each party to be heard and then work towards mutually agreed goals. I will help to unpack the issues without shame or blame and work towards building hope in a new vision.
I can help you acquire the skills to avoid the same old pitfalls and begin to see your differences as a gift rather than a problem. Life together then becomes an opportunity for growth, maturity and greater intimacy.
HELP FOR INDIVIDUALS:
Sex and Relationships are a minefield for many people and repeated failures can be disheartening. If you've recognised a pattern in your life or have suffered some trauma then I can help you to find a way to resolve the issue and deal with the pain.
If your partner does not want to work with you then I can help you with ways in which you can grow and positively benefit your relationship.
I have found that whenever difficulties are overcome and clients connect with their unique strengths and talents they find renewed hope and optimism for the future.
Experience
I am a clinical sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality working as a Sex and Relationship Coach with both couples and individuals.
I am an accredited member of both the Association of Integrative and Somatic Sexologists and the World Association of Sec Coaches (WASC)
Doctorate in Human Sexuality (Institute for Advanced Studies in Human Sexulality)
Certified Professional Sex Coach (SexCoachU)
Further Training with:
Sexual Attitudes Readjustment (SAR)
Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent and Foundations of Facilitation
Advanced Sexological Personal Exploration Experience (ASPEX)
Terry Real of the Relational Life Institute
Esther Perel's Rekindling Desire
Thomas Huebl's Conscious Healing course
Coaching style
When we meet:
- We will make an agreement about expectations and goals
- We will explore the process looking at issues to be faced, commitment needed, benefits of success, etc.
- Decide on a plan of how to get there
- Give honest feedback along the way
- Celebrate your success!